365 Top Quotes & Tips

  1. Everything will be ok at the end, if it’s not ok, its not the end
  2. Become wise by walking with the wise; hang out with fools and watch your life fall top pieces
  3. Forgive, not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace
  4. There’s a difference between interest and commitment. When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when it’s convenient. When you’re committed to something, you accept no losses or excuses; only results
  5. If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up, it dies and ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love’s not about possession. Love is about appreciation.
  6. You can give without loving, but you can’t love without giving
  7. Our anxiety does not come from thinking about the future, but from wanting to control it
  8. Nobody cares what you know until they know how much you care
  9. Smooth sea never made a skilled sailor
  10. Live in such a way that if someone spoke badly of you, nobody would believe it
  11. If you make yourself be really happy and excited to see other people, the next time they see you, they’ll be a lot happier and excited to talk and be with you (dogs do this trick)
  12. When thing don’t happen right away, just remember it takes 6 months to build a Rolls-Royce and 13 hours to build a Toyota
  13. The key to a happy relationship is for you and your partner to believe the relationship is 60/40, not 50/50. Both should give more and expect less
  14. If you can’t imagine dropping the mic after the final sentence in your essay or speech, your conclusion needs to be stronger
  15. Make a password into a goal of yours so you constantly have to be reminded of it
  16. No matter how slow you progress, you’re still ahead of everyone who isn’t trying
  17. Be with someone who gives you the same feeling of when you see your food coming at a restaurant
  18. Even a correct decision is wrong when it is taken too late
  19. You’re 50% more likely to remember something if you speak it outlaid rather than reading it
  20. Admit when you’re wrong and shut up when you’re right
  21. Never make a permanent decision from a temporary emotion
  22. Always under promise and over deliver
  23. When thinking about life, remember this: no moment of guilt can change the past and no amount of anxiety can change the future
  24. Don’t practice something until you get it right, practice something until you can’t get it wrong
  25. if you can’t afford to tip, you can’t afford to go out
  26. When you hug someone, always be the last to let go
  27. If you aren’t afraid of your ambitions, you are not dreaming big enough
  28. Avoid overthinking by focusing on what to do next instead of worrying what you did wrong
  29. If you want to know where you’ll be in 5 years from now, look at who you’re hanging out with today
  30. The tighter the leash, the further the run when it breaks free
  31. One reason people resist change is because they focus on what they have to give up instead of what they will gain
  32. Learn to appreciate what you have before time makes you appreciate what you had
  33. It’s not about getting more done, it’s about getting the right things done
  34. Be grateful for what you have, and work hard for what you don’t have
  35. Arguing over text is the worst way to argue because the lack of tone decreases the meaning of the words
  36. If you are ever stressed, ask yourself if you will even remember this next year
  37. It’s a man’s job to respect a woman, but it’s a woman’s job to give him something to respect
  38. If a man does not have sauce, then he is lost. But the same man can get lost in the sauce
  39. Comparison is the seed and jealousy is the fruit
  40. People don’t care how much you know unless they know how much you care
  41. One of the greatest tragedies in life is to lose your own sense of self and accept the version of you that is expected by everyone else
  42. We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them
  43. Never act on emotion. It clouds judgment
  44. Approach a date with the expectation to have fun, not to fall in love. Setting unrealistic expectations will always result in disappointment
  45. If you want to be trusted, be honest. If you want to be honest, be true. If you want to be true, be yourself
  46. The world is changed by your example, not your opinion
  47. You know you’re on the right track once you become uninterested in looking back
  48. You never know how strong you are, until being strong is the only choice you have
  49. It isn’t about what the book costs, it’s about how much it will cost you NOT to read it
  50. If the whole world was blind, how many people would you impress?
  51. There are more people that look back wishing they had done something than there are that wish they didn’t
  52. We are very good lawyers for our own mistakes, so even better judges for the mistakes of others
  53. You can’t laugh at the same joke again and again, but why do you keep crying over the same thing over and over again
  54. Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change
  55. Beware of destination addiction: the idea that happiness is in the next place, the next job, or with the next partner. Until you give up the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are
  56. Worrying is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it doesn’t get you anywhere
  57. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails
  58. 10% of conflicts are due to difference in opinion and the other 90% are due to tone of voice
  59. If we were all forced to wear a warning label, what would yours say? d
  60. Leaders must be close enough to relate to others, but far enough ahead to motivate them
  61. To join the top 1%, you have to be willing to do what the other 99% wont
  62. 2-minute rule: If you see something that needs to be done and can be done within 2 minutes, do it immediately
  63. If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place
  64. Picture your dream girl. Ask yourself “Am I the type of guy she would want to be with?”
  65. The secret to getting what you want is to design an environment that supports it
  66. The same boiling water that softens the potato hardens the egg. It’s not about the circumstance, but rather what you are made of
  67. I fear no the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks, but I do fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times
  68. Have I not destroyed my enemy when i have made him my friend?
  69. The best way to predict the future is to create it
  70. pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity, an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty
  71. Success happens when preparation meets opportunity
  72. They drowned you too deep in lust that you started to believe that it was love
  73. Suppose this room was dark for over 100 years. How long would it take to light it? Less than one second
  74. Set a goal to learn 1000 financials words and you will be far richer than people who don’t use the same words
  75. The last thing to grow on a fruit tree is the fruit. Stay patient, what you work for will manifest
  76. Asking for small favors from people can make you more likable
  77. You can’t see your reflection in boiling water. Similarly, you can’t see the truths in your life in a state of anger
  78. The true mark of maturity is when somebody hurts you and you try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back
  79. On your deathbed, the person you become will meet the person you could have been
  80. If you are willing to do more than you are paid to do, eventually, you will be paid to do more than you do
  81. Don’t let your ears hear what your eyes didn’t see, and don’t let your mouth say what your heart doesn’t feel
  82. Anyone can love a rose, but it takes a lot to love a leaf. It’s ordinary to love the beautiful, but it’s beautiful to love the ordinary
  83. PURPOSE
  84. Thoughts > words > actions > habits > values > destiny
  85. Don’t go broke trying to look rich. Act your wage
  86. Sometimes it takes sadness to know happiness, noise to appreciate silence, and absence to value presence
  87. Being defeated is only a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent
  88. Confidence isn’t walking into a room thinking you’re better than everyone; it’s walking into a room not having to compare yourself to anyone at all
  89. Be picky with who you invest your time in, wasted time is worse than wasted money
  90. There are winners, there are losers, and there are people who have not yet learned how to win
  91. Surround yourself with those who see the greatness within you, even when you don’t see it within yourselfThe wiseman sees in the misfortune of others so that he knows of what to avoid
  92. If it is important, you will find a way. If it isn’t, you will find an excuse
  93. Be who you needed when you were younger
  94. The man who will use his skill and constructive imagination to see how much he can give for a dollar, instead of how little he can give for a dollar, is bound to succeed
  95. If you’re offended easily, you’re a bad resource allocator. It’s a waste of energy and attention, which is a greater sin than wasting time
  96. If you expect the world to be fair with you because you’re fair, you’re fooling yourself. That’s like expecting a lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him
  97. Giving up on your goal because of one setback is like slashing your other 3 tires because you got one flat
  98. Do what is right, not what is easy
  99. We can be easily molded into something beautiful when we are soft, flexible, and broken in the good ways. Pride and arrogance are harder to shape
  100. It’s fine to celebrate success, but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure
  101. Change starts within. If you want to fix your appearance, you don’t adjust the mirror, you adjust yourself
  102. Seek counsel, not opinion
  103. If you take your best ideas, just give them away. Because, then, people will presume what you’re selling is worth more
  104. Everyone has dreams and goals. The difference between a goal and a dream is a goal is a dream with action
  105. Success leaves clues. Study people you admire or want to be like
  106. Don’t play the role of a wife to a man who isn’t your husband
  107. When you focus on problems, you will have more problems. When you focus on opportunities, you will have more progress
  108. Don’t burn your opportunities for a temporary comfort
  109. The advice you’re getting is only as good as their understanding of the situation
  110. Never ask someone if they’re telling the truth. A liar will just keep lying and an honest person will be offended
  111. People will remember not what you said, but how you made them feel
  112. If the plan doesn’t work. Change the plan, but never the goal
  113. It Takes 20 years to build a reputation and 5 minutes to ruin it. If you think about it, you’ll do things differently
  114. Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never met
  115. She isn’t always right. She will appreciate you sticking up for yourself. Just don’t be a dick about it
  116. You can tell the size of a man by the size of the things that bother them
  117. The person who cares least in the relationship has the most control
  118. A relationship is like a fart, if you have to force it, it’s probably poop
  119. Confidence isn’t “I know she likes me.” Confidence is “I’ll be okay whether she likes me or not”
  120. When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new
  121. Aim for the same confidence as people who say “Ur cute what’s ur number” on Beyonce’s Instagram and expect an answer
  122. People don’t buy what you do; they buy why you do it. And what you do simply proves what you believe
  123. If you don’t value your time, neither will others, stop giving away your time and talents – start charging for it
  124. Success isn’t about how much money you make; it’s about the difference you make in people’s lives
  125. If you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth to someone, you have already forgotten your value
  126. The only person who is educated is the one who has learned how to change
  127. Success is like wrestling a gorilla. You don’t quit when you’re tired. you quit when the gorilla is tired
  128. It all begins and ends in your mind. What you give power to, has power over you, if you allow it
  129. Sometimes you will never know the true value of a moment until it becomes a memory
  130. Make friends who will force you to push yourself up a level
  131. If someone corrects you and you feel offended then you have an ego problem
  132. You don’t get a cookie for doing stuff you should be doing anyways
  133. Someone else is praying for the things you take for granted
  134. The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it
  135. Habits are the invisible architecture of daily life. We repeat about 40% of our behavior daily, so our habits shape our existence and our future
  136. Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small amount of fire brings a small amount of heat
  137. If you are consistent, you will get it. If you are persistent, you will keep it
  138. After the flames of passion subside, a good relationship becomes a cozy bed of coals that’s much better for roasting marshmellows
  139. Peace is not the absence of trouble, but the presence of Christ
  140. The secret to getting ahead is getting started. The secret to getting started is breaking your complex, overwhelming tasks into smaller manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one
  141. The cost of being wrong is less than the cost of doing nothing
  142. Don’t give up what you want most for what you want now
  143. Judge a man by his questions rather than his answers
  144. It’s the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief. And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen
  145. Seeing your goals written down in your own handwriting has a powerful effect on your mind
  146. You can’t climb the ladder of success with your hands in your pocket
  147. If you want to go somewhere, it is best to find someone who has already been there
  148. A plan is a bridge to your dreams. Your job is to make the plan or bridge real, so that your dreams will become real. If all you do is stand on the side of the bank and dream on the other side, your dreams will forever be just dreams
  149. People need to wake up and realize that life doesn’t wait for you. If you want something get up and go after it
  150. The philosophy of the rich and the poor is this: the rich invest their money and spend what is left. The poor spend their money and invest what is left
  151. Your plan should come from logic (your head). But your drive should come from your emotion (your heart)
  152. When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you
  153. The greatest wisdom of all time is in astutely choosing what not to do with your time
  154. In today’s society, looking good and feeling good often trumps doing good and being good. And some people don’t know the difference anymore.
  155. Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant
  156. When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us
  157. Always remember that the crowd that applauds your coronation, is the same crowd that will applaud your beheading. People like a show
  158. The “nice guy” wants to have sex with the girl, but he thinks he can pretend he doesn’t and is all nice and helpful in hopes the girl will roll over and give it to him
  159. I gave you $10, He gave you $20. You felt better just because he gave you more. But he had $200, and all I had was $10
  160. There are only 2 days in the year that nothing can be done. One is called yesterday and the other is called tomorrow, so today is the right day to love, believe, do, and most live
  161. If what you say everyday was tattooed on your body, what would your body show?
  162. Try not to become a man of success, but a man of value
  163. Until we see what we are, we cannot take steps to become what we should be
  164. You can expose your mindset by examining the words in your language and your thoughts
  165. Think of the relationships in your life like an army platoon readying for battle. Who are you going to war with?
  166. Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything he learned in school
  167. The brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out; the brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something. The brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want it badly enough; They are there to stop the other people!
  168. We are not doing a favor by serving the customer, the customer is doing us a favor by giving us the opportunity to do so
  169. Being nice with the main hope of going to Heaven is the moral equivalent of being nice to a girl just so she’ll sleep with you
  170. Procrastination is like masturbation, it feels good at the time, but in the end, you’re just f*****g yourself
  171. If you take just one small step towards your goal in real life, it’s a lot ore value than 100 steps you fantasize about in your head
  172. Deciding where and when to start is the enemy of starting. You can’t steer a parked car. Pick an option and go
  173. The only thing worse than being blind is having sight and no vision
  174. Some dream of success while others wake up and work for it
  175. You’ll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret to your success is found in your daily routine
  176. Too many people confuse being rich or famous with being a leader. Wealth and fame are byproducts not qualifications to lead
  177. Two things define you: Your patience when you have nothing and your attitude when you have everything
  178. Love yourself to the point that your energy and aura rejects anyone who doesn’t know your worth
  179. If people like you, they’ll listen to you; but if they trust you, they’ll do business with you
  180. He who has never learned to obey cannot be a good commander
  181. Don’t make decisions when you’re angry. Don’t make promises when you’re happy
  182. Don’t live the same year 75 times and call it a life
  183. It’s not whether you fail or not. It’s how you respond when it happens. (like when milk spills, you just clean up)
  184. Never trust what you can only see, even salt looks like sugar
  185. It’s not about having good ideas. It’s about making ideas happen
  186. Trying to do it all and expecting that it can be done exactly right is a recipe for disappointment. Perfection is the enemy
  187. Try not to create a beautiful relationship or ideal relationship. Instead, create a lasting one
  188. The thing that’s holding people back is the romantic version of who they think they want to be versus who they actually are
  189. In business or in life, don’t follow the wagon tracks too closely
  190. It is only when a mosquito lands on your testicles that you realize there is always a way to solve problems without using violence
  191. Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds, cannot change anything
  192. When you are dead, you don’t even know that you are dead. It’s only pain for others. Something when you are stupid
  193. I don’t need to know everything as long as I know the people who do
  194. You will never be free until you free yourself from the prison of your own false thoughts
  195. An entrepreneur isn’t someone who owns a business, it’s someone who makes things happen
  196. Think about it this way: you were okay before you met that person, you were fine before that thing happened to you, so why do you think you can’t live without it now?
  197. It is better to create something that others criticize than to create nothing and criticize others
  198. A leader takes people where they want to go. A great leader takes people where they don’t necessarily want to go, but ought to be
  199. You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day. This is a power you can cultivate. If you want to control things in your life so bad, work on the mind. That’s the only thing you should be trying to control.
  200. A smart person knows what to say, a wise person knows whether or not to say it
  201. No one ever works out and regrets it. You never go for a run and then when you’re finished, wish you would have stayed at home. You never climb a mountain, get to the top, and say “I should have been content to stay where I was”
  202. When your mind is the weapon, you are never unarmed
  203. She never looked nice. She looked like art, and art wasn’t supposed to look nice; it was supposed to make you feel something
  204. When apologizing, replace the word “but” with a pause. It allows you to explain yourself while still sounding wholehearted. e.g. “I’m sorry but I’m trying my best” becomes “I’m sorry. I’m trying my best”
  205. Instead of saying ‘yeah you told me’ when someone repeats a story, say ‘yeah I remember this’. It comes across enough to remember, as opposed to be bored with the other person’s story
  206. When you have a goal, don’t tell people about it because it only gives you the sense of being noble/motivated for just having goals
  207. If you’re the smartest in the room, then you’re in the wrong room
  208. Set a goal so big that you can’t achieve it until you grow into the person who can
  209. What if I told you 10 years from now, your life would be exactly the same. I doubt you’d be happy. So why are you afraid of change?
  210. The key to success is playing the hand you were dealt like it was the hand you wanted
  211. There are two ways to get enough: One is to continue to accumulate more and more. The other is to desire less
  212. I met a man with a dollar; we exchange dollars. We each have one dollar. I met a man with an idea. We exchange ideas, and we each have two ideas
  213. The man who hesitates because he wants the opinion of others before he begins to exercise his personal initiative usually winds up by doing nothing
  214. Discussions are always better than arguments, because an argument is to find out who is right, and a discussion is to find what is right
  215. When you become lazy, it’s disrespectful to those who believe in you
  216. Experience is the hardest teacher.It gives you the test first and then teaches you the lesson
  217. Isn’t it funny how we judge what fair pay is based on how much more it is than minimum wage, not on how much money we actually need to live
  218. The most dangerous negotiation is the one you don’t know you’re in
  219. There’s great power in deference. When you’re very deferential, the other side has a tendency to drop their guard and they feel powerful because you’ve empowered them. What they don’t understand is that you’re the source of that power and if you can empower them, you can also take it away
  220. Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know. So figure out what you need to learn from your situation, learn it, and move on
  221. The courage to ask must be matched by the wisdom to listen
  222. If you are never alone, you cannot know yourself
  223. If everything you desired and envisioned for your life was in front of you now, would you be ready to receive it?
  224. Unless your name is Google, don’t act like you know everything
  225. Look ahead 10 years, then work backwards. Make sure every step brings you closer to that point
  226. Happiness will come to you when it comes from you. Success will be yours when you choose to take responsibility for making it so
  227. Real adulthood is the result of two qualities: self-discipline and self-reliance. The process of developing them together in balance is called maturing
  228. It is our relationship to circumstances that determines their influence over us. The same wind that carries one vessel into port, may blow another off shore
  229. A life of reaction is a life of slavery, intellectually and spiritually. One must fight for a life of action, not reaction
  230. A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds
  231. Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured
  232. Defeat is a state of mind; no one is ever defeated until defeat has been accepted as a reality
  233. People don’t buy what you do; they buy why you do it. And what you do simply proves what you believe
  234. Any fool can know. The point is to understand
  235. Be nice to people on your way up because you might meet them on your way down
  236. The culture of any organization is shaped by the worst behavior the leader is willing to tolerate
  237. Don’t fear failure. Fear being in the same exact place next year as you are today
  238. A true leader is not the one with the most followers, but one who creates the most leaders
  239. True nobility is being superior to your former self
  240. A man’s mind may be likened to a garden; which may be intelligently cultivated or allowed to run wild; but ether cultivated or neglected, it must, and will, bring forth seeds. If no useful seeds are put into it, then an abundance of useless weed seeds will fall therein, and will continue to produce their kind
  241. Two kinds of people in the world – those who walk into a room & say “Here I am” and those who say “There you are” Selfish vs Unselfish
  242. The same habits of the old year will get you the same results in the new year. Change something, or change nothing
  243. A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new
  244. In every success story, you will find someone who has made a courageous decision
  245. Do, or do not. There is no try
  246. The world has the habit of making room for the man whose actions show that he knows where he is going
  247. When in an argument, act as if you’re being recorded. This will prevent you from saying stupid things you don’t mean
  248. People you know that have a tough time accepting that you come from the same place, but they are still in the same place
  249. You have to understand who you are because if you leave that space open, you leave your identity in the hands of society. Don’t let anyone define you
  250. Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection, we can catch excellence
  251. I wish everyone could get rich and famous and have everything they ever dreamed of, so they can see that it’s not where they’re going to find their sense of completion
  252. You can never cross the ocean until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore
  253. No wise pilot, no matter how great his talent and experience, fails to use a checklist
  254. It’s not enough to be busy, so are the ants. The question is what are we busy about
  255. I survived because the fire inside me burned brighter than the fire around me
  256. You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be
  257. Most people don’t want to be part of the process, they just want to be part of the outcome. But the process is where you’ll figure out who’s worth being part of the outcome
  258. The risk of a wrong decision is preferable to the terror of indecision
  259. I hated every minute of training, but said, don’t quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion
  260. The greatest mistake you can make in life is continually fearing that you’ll make one
  261. Complaining about a silent God while your Bible is closed, is like complaining about not getting texts when your phone is turned off
  262. Saying you can’t pray because you’ve committed too many sins is like saying you can’t shower because you’re too dirty
  263. The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away
  264. Money is simply an echo of value. The money you receive is a direct result of the value you provide
  265. Be a user of your product. Make it better based on your own desires. But don’t trick yourself into thinking you are your user
  266. You can’t keep people from talking crap about you, all you can do is keep them from being true
  267. The day you stop listening to the market is the day the market stops listening to you
  268. Beware of little expenses. A small leak will sink a great ship
  269. The pessimist complains about the wind. The optimist expects it to change. The leader adjusts the sails
  270. The competitor to be feared is one who never bothers about you at all, but goes on making his own business better all the time
  271. If you’re not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary
  272. We tend to operate at the level of our belief. When we increase our belief, we increase our power to create
  273. You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself
  274. Be the type of person that no matter where you go or where you are, you always add value to the lives of those around you
  275. Our generation is becoming so busy trying to prove that women can do what men can do that women are losing their uniqueness. Women weren’t created to do everything a man can do. Women were created to do everything a man can’t do
  276. If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it
  277. The one who wins the race doesn’t run with the pack
  278. Never leave your interests at the mercy of any one individual or one specific concrete thing
  279. My goal is no longer to get more done, but rather to have less to do
  280. Being positive doesn’t mean you don’t have negative thoughts. It just means you don’t let those thoughts control your life
  281. Every person, every setback, every experience in your life can teach you something if you are open to it. When you view life from this perspective, class is always in session
  282. A secret to happiness is letting each situation be what it is instead of what you think it should be, then making the best of it
  283. Your perspective is always limited by how much you know. Expand your knowledge and you will transform your mind
  284. How you spend your free time now determines how much free time you’ll have in 5 years
  285. Everyone wants to be a beast until it’s time to do what real beasts do
  286. Leadership is making important, but unpopular decision
  287. To get the few critical things done, you must develop incredible selective ignorance. Otherwise, the trivial will drown you
  288. Being rich isn’t about how much money you make, it’s about how much you keep
  289. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure
  290. The only reason a warrior is alive is to fight, and the only reason a warrior fights, is to win. Other wise, why be a warrior? It is easier to count beads
  291. Goals aren’t enough. You need goals plus deadlines: goals big enough to get excited about and deadlines to make you run
  292. Your mind must arrive at your destination before your life does
  293. One of the most dangerous days in a man’s life is when he discovers the word tomorrow
  294. Lower the risk, and you lower the barrier to action. You make it easy to say yes
  295. A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking because her trust is not in the branch, but in her own wings
  296. Ask any entrepreneur and they will validate this truth: you learn from engagement, from doing, and from getting out and taking repeated action, more so than from any book or profession
  297. Some choose short-term mediocre comfort over long-term meteoric comfort
  298. In a gold rush, don’t dig for gold, sell shovels!
  299. Progress always involves risk; you can’t steal second base and keep your foot on first
  300. We can rationalize anything and easily quit on ourselves. Leadership is refusing to quit on others
  301. The size of your dreams must always exceed your current capacity to achieve them
  302. Abundance is not something that you acquire; it’s something that you attract
  303. A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at
  304. You might be the sweetest peach in the world, but some people don’t like peaches
  305. The only time you should look in your neighbor’s bowl is to make sure that they have enough
  306. Cunningham’s Law: the best way to get the right answer on the internet is not to ask a question, it’s to post the wrong answer
  307. Sure sex got easier to get, love got harder to find
  308. 10 years from now, your kids will be eating or starving from the decisions that you have made today
  309. The difference in winning and losing is most often, not quitting
  310. You cannot be all things to all people
  311. Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal
  312. The more a man knows, the more he knows there are things he doesn’t know
  313. The only security is ignorance
  314. The universe aligns you with people, things, and situations that match the energy you put out
  315. Trying to do it all and expecting that it can be done exactly right is a recipe for disappointment
  316. Man’s mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions
  317. Timing, perseverance and 10 years of trying will eventually make you look like an overnight success
  318. The real measure of your wealth is how much you’d be worth if you lost all your money
  319. One day, I plan on writing a one-page success book. On that page, I’ll write: “That project you always dreamed of doing, DO IT.”
  320. Think in years. Work in months. Live in days.
  321. If internet explorer is brave enough to ask you to be your default browser, you’re brave enough to ask that girl out
  322. Leaders think and talk about the solutions. Followers think and talk about the problems
  323. Don’t climb mountains so that people can see you. Climb mountains so that you can see the world
  324. The strongest oak of the forest is not the one that is protected from the storm and hidden from the sun. It’s the one that stands in the open where it is compelled to struggle for its existence against the winds, and rains, and the scorching sun
  325. When breaking up with someone, make a list of the reasons that made you break up with that person. If you’re ever thinking of getting back together, read that list
  326. Some people die at age 25 and aren’t buried until they are 75
  327. We often discover what we will do by finding out what we will not do
  328. If people knew how hard I worked to get my mastery, it wouldn’t seem very wonderful at all
  329. What is not started today is never finished tomorrow
  330. A man is only as faithful as his options
  331. Opinions are the cheapest commodities on Earth. Everyone has a flock of opinions ready to be wished upon anyone who will accept them. If you are influenced by “opinions” when you reach decisions, you will not succeed in any undertaking
  332. Imagine what the world would be like if everyone did what they intended to do
  333. Most great people have attained their greatest success just one step beyond their greatest failure
  334. I never looked at the consequences of missing a big shot… when you think about the consequences you always think of a negative result
  335. If you are not learning while you’re earning, you are cheating yourself out of the better portion of your compensation
  336. Some people don’t like change, but you need to embrace change if the alternative is disaster
  337. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, make amends immediately. It’s easier to eat crow while it’s still warm
  338. I’m suspicious of people who don’t like dogs, but I trust a dog when it doesn’t like a person
  339. The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn’t being said. The art of reading between the lines is a lifelong quest of the wise
  340. Time is the scarcest resource and unless it is managed, nothing else can be managed
  341. The weakest ink is better than the best memory
  342. Don’t wait until you’ve reached your goal to be proud of yourself. Be proud of every step you take toward reaching your goal
  343. Loyalty is not won by being first. It is won by being best
  344. I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life
  345. Worrying is carrying tomorrow’s load with today’s strength – carrying two days at once. It is moving into tomorrow ahead of time. Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength
  346. Never forget what you are. The rest of the world won’t. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used against you
  347. If you ever dream of beating me, you better wake up and apologize
  348. If your business depends on you, you don’t own a business, you have a job! and it’s the worst job because you work for a lunatic!
  349. If you think education is expensive, try ignorance
  350. It’s easier to lose someone you love than to keep and take care of them
  351. If you’re planning what to say, you’re not listening to others
  352. If you’re not making mistakes, then you’re not making decisions
  353. A mistake repeated more than once is a decision
  354. For every excuse you have, there is someone who has overcome the same obstacle
  355. Fight your fears and you’ll be in battle forever. Face your fears and you’ll be free forever.
  356. The best teachers are those who show you where to look but don’t tell you what to see
  357. If a 100 foot oak tree had the mind of a human it would only grow 10 feet tall
  358. The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself
  359. Done is better than perfect
  360. People are rewarded in public for what they’ve practiced for years in private
  361. Rich people choose to get paid based on results. Poor people choose to get paid based on time
  362. Customers don’t expect you to be perfect. They do expect you to fix things when they go wrong
  363. You are the average of 5 of the people you hang out with

2015-2016 5/28/16 Saturday 10:53am Lincoln, NE
– started 2015 and finished 365+ quotes by 2016
2017 5/24/17 Wednesday 11:03am Rochester, MN*
– replaced weak quotes with better quotes and shorted the quotes down to the best 365

The Ultimate Secret to Wealth

It’s simple. No college student really gives a crap about the topic of wealth.

Why is that Alvin?

Hey guys, I’m Alvin and welcome to my blog!

I’m a 20 year old visionary genius. I’m just here to entertain you about the Ultimate Secret to Wealth. But I must admit, I’m so poor that ducks throw bread at me. So what right do I have to make this article?

Before I continue to answer anything, let me warn you:


 I base almost all of my content off of the most influential book called ‘The Millionaire Fastlane’ by MJ DeMarco.
And with that in mind, I present ‘The Ultimate Secret to Wealth’ with unadulterated boldness. This blog is written as an uncivil narrative and while it will seem arrogant, you have to find your own truth. Fortunately for me, what you think about the secret to wealth doesn’t change my reality; it only changes yours.

First things first, I want you to think about the words that make up wealth.

Worldly possessions.

Expensive cars.

Abundant cash.

Lavish lifestyle.

Thick watches.

Huge houses.

Why do you think wealth means those cliché words, reader? You just grew up thinking that way because of society? Well duh, of course you did, because in society’s perspective, it’s true! However, let me give you some advice by Mark Twain, “if you ever find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.”

Think about wealth again. Now mentally check yes or no if you agree with any of these quotes.

Yes ☐ No☐ – The love of money is the root of all evil. 1 Tim 6:10

Yes ☐ No☐ – I got a problem with spending before I get it… We all self-conscious, I’m just the first to admit it. Kanye West

Yes ☐ No☐ – Money doesn’t make you better than everyone else. Unknown

Yes ☐ No☐ – It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver. Gandhi

Yes ☐ No☐ – Money is numbers and numbers never end. If it takes money to be happy, your search for happiness will never end. Bob Marley

Yes ☐ No☐ – Money can’t buy happiness, but it can buy marshmallows, so it’s basically the same thing. Some idiot

Thinking of other phrases?

STOP!

Stop right now.

Forget what you “know” about wealth real quick.

Now let me give you a more concise meaning of true wealth.

True wealth is made up of three fundamental F’s:

  1. Family (relationships)
  2. Fitness (health)
  3. Freedom (choice)

So let’s jump straight to it.


The first F is every relationship you have, whether it be with your neighbor, God, or your community. For now, I’ll focus on family. There’s a saying that goes “family isn’t always blood”. And for this reason, the people who are family are the people who share the love in your life for every moment together. Don Corleone puts it like this, “Friendship is everything. Friendship is more than talent. It is more than the government. It is almost the equal of family.”

The perfect example of a friendship I have is with my cousin, Peter Marpaung. In October 2012, Peter introduced me to the world of iOS app development.  The amount of effort he sacrificed to innovate his apps and build his business has proved to me that he’s an awesome role model for me. His app, MineSwing, just motivates the heck out of me because if he can create something fun like that, I can create one 10 times better!

Back to the point, make your ‘family’ circle small by finding out who you are yourself. Think of it like this: you are the average of five of your closest friends. What kind of person will you become when five of your closest buddies are all loose-chicks or pot heads? How about five addicted League of Legend players? Five anime lovers? Five straight-A students? Or how about five visionary geniuses?! I’ll leave you with this:

“Become wise by walking with the wise.” – Proverbs 13:20

But even so, you still have a family bond with your weirdest buddies. You still love your siblings more than Jaime Lannister loves his. Just understand, you can’t be rich when the family part of your true wealth withers.


Secondly, fitness. How crazy would it be to gain the whole world, but lose your life? Dumb, right? And since the condition of wellness plays an obvious role in the definition of true wealth, I’ll make this section interesting.

Here’s an example:

You’re an otolaryngologists at a poor hospital somewhere in southern California. You’re on your lunch break, and the Indomie you got from my house is prepared with some canned fish. As you’re eating, you feel a sharp paper cut inside the back of your mouth. An abnormal sized fish bone has sliced the blood vessels around your trachea and has completely plugged your air pathway!

Suddenly, you’re desperately gasping for air and bleeding like crazy. Your life fades away in slow agony as you glance at the light at the end of the tunnel. You don’t care about the girl(s) you met at Andrews University or the time you’ve wasted studying to be a freakin otolaryngologist! The one and only thing you care about, is your life.

Ask any terminally ill person what they value. Money? No. You see, true wealth is about mental and physical health.


The third and final F is the freedom of choice. The freedom to live whenever, wherever, and however you want. True wealth ≠ money. True, but on the other hand, money is one of the key components of freedom. MJ Demarco’s ‘The Millionaire Fastlane’ explains more in detail and also guides you through the mental processes you need, in order to approach all the types of freedom.

True wealth is about the freedom to escape the slavery that your job has on your life. Freedom of not being shackled by student loans and not worrying about what food you’re going to eat at home. But most importantly, freedom from doing the things you sincerely hate!

“Wealth is the ability to fully experience life.” – Henry David Thoreau

So the broke college students who have the need to party all the time, let me ask you:

What exactly are you celebrating? Freedom? Even you poor college students party like its your birthday. What gives you the right to party when your parents are slaving their freedom away for you? Instead, have diligence in school and in the education outside of school and learn to free your family from their financial prison.


It’s simple. No college student really gives a crap about the topic of wealth.
Why is that Alvin?

Because that topic doesn’t make you happy. It’s so far from your reach, you effortlessly forget about it. However, when you do worry about it, a ripple effect slips out with a silent but deadly grip.

It goes something like this:

“Hmm, is this major gonna make me money? Ah dang it, I don’t even wanna worry about it. Imma just go back to my miserable life and binge-play League of Legends, binge-watch Friends on Netflix again, and then browse 100 categories on Pornhub. When it’s time for exams, I’ll just cheat or procrastinate somehow. Rinse and repeat. In a couple years, I’ll soon realize that I need to get my lazy [expletive] up and do something!”

College students don’t care about the topic of wealth because their definition of wealth is twisted.

And if you still think about wealth like the way you’ve been taught all your life, you can’t say I didn’t try to convince you that you’re wrong.

In conclusion, I’ll let an extremely wealthy Instagrammer (@thefailur) end it this way:

“Money doesn’t make you better than everyone else.”

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Sorry, but you’re wrong. It absolutely makes us better.

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Why? That answer is multi faceted. It isn’t about the wealth per se, it’s about the person you have to become, to be “rich”. It’s about an insane work ethic few people could understand. It’s about saying yes to terrifying opportunities. It’s about making the most out of your life. It’s finding your true calling and chasing your dreams. It’s the pain and suffering, the lost friendships, the 100 hour weeks, and not giving excuses.

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So yes, wealth makes a person different. The journey does at least.